Moochers. They make you bleed and bleed until you are dry. Why do I let people get away with this. When you go on vacation with other people and they are in charge of meals, I expect them to get made. For me to shoulder the entire time with the food I brought and actually made, makes me angry. What makes you think this is appropriate, and who does this to "friends"? To top it all off, when equipment needs to be cleaned and returned to whom it was ever so graciously borrowed from, you are nowhere to be found. I have had enough and refuse to give anything further. There will be no more "next times". My husband thinks I am over-reacting. I say that if he wishes to have "I am a doormat" written all over his forehead, that is fine. Not me. I feel that I have gone out of my way in the past to help someone out, and sharing what I have. So now I will not feel guilty for electing not to do this anymore.
Rude People. By the way, when you and your children are at someone else's house and the owner of that house says the kids are not allowed to do something, it is unbelievably rude to tell the kids the exact opposite right in front of the owner. In my house, guests follow my rules. I wonder what you teach your kids when they have the balls to say "I am a guest, I don't have to help". No I guess you don't, but you will not be welcomed back.
And please keep your thoughts on what children should be allowed to do to yourself. Telling a 12 year old that it is her hair and she can do anything she wants with it is disrespecful to that child's parents. Keep your thoughts to yourself, I don't tell you how to parent your kids.
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